I tend to only work stations on LOTW. I assumed most would get confirmed within a reasonable time.
I had worked a station in a county I really need. Upon investigation, I found a CSV file available
from LOTW that has the last activity date/time for all stations. Seems about 2 weeks behind but definitely useful.
Perhaps this is the same file you use?
https://lotw.arrl.org/lotw-user-activity.csv
WSJT-X also uses that URL to populate it's database.
Alas, the station in question has not uploaded in 6 years.
Now to the enhancement. In the membership form, it could display the date of last activity from that file.
Thanks & 73s,
Don